
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!
We hope this ”letter” finds you well. For Brian and I, 2009 has been another amazing and exciting year, the highlight of which has been watching our sweet girl blossom before our eyes. If you can believe it, Avery Elizabeth is 14 months old this Christmas! If you thought she was a big girl when she was born, you should see how big this personality she’s developed is!
Singing, dancing, playing, talking and generally hamming it up for anyone willing to become her audience are among her favorite activities (I wonder where she gets that from). She is a big fan of books and if she can find a book and a willing adult, she’ll be snuggled up in your lap as soon as she can manage. She amazes us by adding new words to her vocabulary daily. A fantastic dancer, she looks for any opportunity she can to get down and boogie. OK, I lied. She’s actually a horrible, horrible dancer, but a fantastic entertainer in the process! She loves ring around the rosey, cartoons, bananas, Elmo, scrambled eggs and, of course, the apple of her eye, her daddy.

I could go on and on about Avery, but if I had to sum her ginormous personality up in one word, it would be Bright. Not just in the obvious way. Yes, like any doting parents we are convinced she’s significantly advanced for her age. But in a deeper sense, she has truly been a light to us this year. Having withstood a surprising turn of events, including losing my job, adjusting to being a stay at home mom, and eventually learning to balance work and life, she has shed light on the meaning of family for both Brian and I, and on what is truly important to us in the midst of the chaos that can become our daily routines.
For me personally, one of the highlights of being Avery’s mom this year has been the opportunity to see the world through my little girl’s eyes. Avery doesn’t care how full the calendar is or how much is in the bank account. She never worries about what is to come. She dwells in the moment, and focuses all of her attention on what or who is directly in front of her. She is honest with her emotions, and chooses to look towards the future rather than focusing on the past. She has a sense of wonder at the simplest of things, a falling leaf, the first snow. She has brought to life the importance of a child-like faith, and challenged me to possess it.

Brian and I have never been more aware of how important our friends and family are in shaping our lives and our family’s life. We value each of you and thank you for your support this past year. We wish you all a holiday season filled with love, joy, and hope, and the same for the new year.
All our love,
Brian, Libby and Avery


that was so nice. thanks for the card, and Merry Christmas!
OMG that was a tear jerker, Thank you for sharing that, you two are incredible parents. With all you have on your plate you still have time to devote you lives to such an Incredibly talented and beautiful and SMART little girl, who brings JOY into everyone’s life that she touches. You mention the name AVERY and everyone at church says “Isn’t she beautiful, isn’t she smart.” So census says I GUESS IT’s TRUE. LOL. They say “It takes a village to raise a child”, at NC that is true, the love that everyone shows everyone else’s child is beyond amazing, that goes for if the child is 1 or 26, that love is shown in so many ways. Thank you for loving us, for Loving Nikki and for being the Stand up GOD-Like People you are. Have a wonderful holiday and get some well deserved rest. Merry Christmas Love Stefi,Greg and Nikki
That was beautiful!! Love you guys!
I know I am totally biased (the grandma), but Avery’s “Mimi” agrees. She is delightful and a “light” for all of us. I guess we all need to be like her….enjoy the pure and simple things of life. Thank God for her and for you, Brian and Libby. Love you, Mimi